4. M&J Parent’s & Guardian’s Code of Conduct
SRUFC expects parents or guardians to take responsibility for the children within their charge and to be aware of the minimum standards of behaviour acceptable to SRUFC. Every parent or guardian within the Mini & Junior Rugby Sections will be expected to abide by this code.
• Always be aware of the SRUFC's policy on child protection/safeguarding;
• Always remain on site at SRUFC at all times. SRUFC does NOT operate a 'drop and leave' facility. If a child has to be left for any reason a responsible adult must be left in charge of the child and both the child and the child's coach must be advised as to who that responsible adult is.
• Do not force an unwilling child to participate – it is supposed to be for the child, they may be put off rugby forever.
• Be realistic about the young players’ abilities assessed on their aptitude, strength and confidence; do not push them towards a level that they are not capable of achieving.
• Encourage your child to understand and play within the rules.
• Teach your child that taking part and trying their best is more important than winning.
• Focus your child on practicing their skills, sportsmanship and being part of a team; winning is not everything and not everyone can score the winning try!
• Support and encourage your child, and never criticise them for making mistakes. Console them for losing, but encourage them to try harder next time.
• Set an example for sportsmanship, and applaud good play by all.
• Acknowledge that coaches, referees and other officials give their time freely so that your children can safely enjoy the sport of Rugby Union.
• Never publicly criticise a manager, coach, referee or linesman - there is no place for 'touchline rage' in rugby.
• Always support the coaches - they are giving up their time voluntarily. If any issues arise with the way a coach is performing, talk to them first. If necessary, refer any issues to an Officer of SRUFC.
• Support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse from children's sport and report anything inappropriate or concerning to the Club Safeguarding Team.
• Remember that young people play rugby for their own enjoyment and not of that of their parents.
• Be aware of the “Players Code of Conduct” and support the club by reinforcing this with your children.
• Ensure that other members of your family/friends are aware of the “Spectators Code of Conduct”and the environment we are trying to create at the club.